And so my solution is this, and its very simple.
An interfactional alliance of members, who work together in order to ensure that the lower characters are well kept and helped. Here are my ideas as to what should happen
1: Must have at least a lvl 16 char in order to be effective at helping new chars (with money, items, advice so forth). Why? Being lvl 16 means you have explored a bit, know where the money is, and probably have an ability to give money to others)
2: When you can, help the newbs in your faction by giving them your excess money. After lvl 16 you can't buy items that are that helpful, equipement wise(so far, this is subject to change because of the additions later on in the game), but many chars at high levels have millions of dollars just sitting in their accounts, why not give 1 million gp away if you aren't spending it? (And Yes I donate lots of money to TC)
3: If you want to RP the faction war, thats awesome, go ahead and kill each other, thats cool. Realize that there are two systems out there, some people are trying to play their character as if in the real world, which is perfectly acceptable. Other players just want to have a fun experience without being killed, that is also valid. If you are going to kill other players however, own up to any future consequences that may occur, for example: The Okies never complain, neither does AlexiaGold. They PK players, and they don't whine when they get PKed, that simple.
4: Although people not PKing each other would be nice, it is never going to happen, so work together ACROSS, factions to ensure that you lvl up to a point where you can do something about the PKing mentioned in number 3. If you want to change the world, you first have to have the power to change the world. Thus, lvl with others to get to a high enough lvl.
5: Being nice knows no faction. And this is important to note. If you are being nice to someone, eventually you'll build a reputation of the nice guy, which will help you crusade against PKer's or will help you put an end to the faction wars (through peace)
6: I know its frustrating to die, However, this is a game don't let it get to you. It pisses everyone off when complaints are lodged due to griefing, please just swallow your pride and move on. If you want to solve a problem, solve it, don't complain (I complained, and it got me no where, to which I am sorry and I now realize I was stupid)
7: Most importantly, if you want to form an interfactional guild at some point to uphold the above ideals and suggestions, then DO IT. Make leagues to counter the PKer's. If you aren't a part of the solution, you're a part of an evergrowing problem.
8: Remember, the dev's want us working together. Your faction is simply where you are, the person you play is only a computer figment, however, the way you play your char, will change the way the NS4 world works. If you want NS4 to be a peaceful place, you have to spread the good around to make it peaceful.
9: Quit asking Dev's and DM's to fix the problem for you. nothing is broke, so they won't fix it. If you want the world to be happy and good, then by God, you need to make it happen yourself. Be proactive and do something

I've tried fire, i've tried faith, and i've tried force, all I have left is hope.